There are a lot of questions regarding proper etiquette when communicating with a professional Dominatrix, so let's clarify a few things so you don't get yourself into trouble by relying on assumptions and previous experiences with another Mistress. Most importantly: My preferred title is Ms. Blackwood.
You are not to address me as "Miss", "Domina", or "Ma'am." Ms. Victoria is acceptable outside of the dungeon.
* I do not address clients outside of a session. You are also not to address me in public unless you have my permission to do so.
Applying to Serve
When beginning the booking process it is very important that you are honest about yourself, your prior experiences, and your interests. Your application is not the place to divulge BDSM fantasies or embellish the truth. It is also important to use a real name for vetting purposes. Although many of us in this day and age have privacy concerns...using fake names or frequently using a different name, email, or phone number will make screening difficult and your application may be denied as a result. I take privacy very seriously and everything that you share with me is confidential. I do not disclose any of your personal information without your written consent. All personal information obtained during the booking process is strictly for screening purposes only. Your honesty and ability to follow directions during this process also tells me a great deal about your character as a submissive. Take great care when completing it as it will affect my decision in the process, as well as the nature of your scene should your application be approved.
If you have sessioned with me before, booking is easy! Just send me an email or text with three potential dates and times, and the session length.
Avoid long-winded messages and make your email/text as concise and polite as possible. I will not respond to sexually explicit language or "text speak," so be a Gentleman in your correspondence and always use letter format when communicating with me.
The default safeword for all sessions is: "Mercy, Mistress!" I find that this keeps the energy of the scene intact while making it loud and clear that you are approaching your limit.
At the end of your session there will be time for after care. Usually, this is when I will allow you to address me informally as Ms. Victoria and speak plainly about the scene, your interests, etc. However, it is important to be respectful and humble oneself at all times. This also extends to the days and weeks after your session when emotions are high and you are reliving the moment of our time together in your mind. Though it may be difficult, resist the urge to be impulsive, informal, or overly familiar. I expect the exact same process to be followed and for all exchanges to be formal, polite, short, and concise unless otherwise stated. Do not send long winded emails. Should you like more guidance or communication after your session I can be reached on Sextpanther. I also offer monthly membership options for slaves in training who require daily or weekly tasks. They are customized to each individual and available only for previous clients who have been approved. Send all inquiries to my email address.
Still unclear about Session Preparation? If you have any questions or require more information,
you can call me on Niteflirt or message me on Sextpanther to discuss things further.